2018 – A Look Back

December has always been a month of madness as we all tie ourselves to the Christmas bandwagon and hold on tight. But it’s also a month of reflection and what a year it has been for the Fanfare family.

It kicked off back in April with the postponed wedding (due to the snow in March) of Jan and Richard at Powderham Castle and my last ceremony was for Emily and Andy at the Deer Park Country House in November – A venue which has now closed its doors to hotel guests and now concentrates entirely on weddings and events.  I was lucky enough to be asked to conduct two ceremonies there this year.  Both were wonderfully happy and memorable.  Bizarrely for Kirstie and Dan in September the weather threw the book at them.  Heavy rain and gales.  Whereas at the beginning of November for Emily and Andy the sun shone down on them.  I’m always saying that couples should consider winter weddings, although I’m saying that as we are entering yet another week of wet and windy weather.

This is my third year of being a celebrant and I’ve been to some new venues such as the quirky and charming Streamcombe Farm and returned to some old friends like The Barn at Barons Hill Farm.  But my favourites are without doubt those that are at home.  Both Becky and Ran’s and Charlotte and Chris’ weddings were the stand outs for me.  Purely for that reason.  Both their homes are in the most magical of settings and although again the blummin’ weather threw a spanner in the works for Charlotte and Chris it didn’t take away from the fact that Charlotte had her wedding and exchanged vows and rings with the person she loved, in the place she loved… at home.  For me there is nothing better.

The year culminated with a last-minute decision to enter the Wedding Industry Awards and unexpectedly being made a regional finalist.  I lost out to the very talented Cornish Celebrants – a charming duo of lady Celebrants based, yes you’ve guessed it, in Cornwall.  It certainly was an experience and I cannot thank all the couples who voted for me enough especially as I really had not given them much warning!  It wasn’t to be this year but who knows I might try again next year!

One more thing I’m delighted to report, is that Bex and Gavin and Amy and Dave, whose ceremonies I conducted last year at Huntsham Court and The Barn at Barons Hill respectively, are expecting their first babies.  I feel like a prospective Granny!

And so I would like to finish by wishing all members of the ‘Fanfare’ family, both old and new (and coming soon!) a brilliantly Happy New Year.   I’m excited about all the ceremonies I already have booked for next year and look forward to meeting new couples looking to have a celebrant wedding soon.

 

The Poldark Effect

The rivalry between Devon and Cornwall is friendly but notorious.  Whether it’s the discussion over the order in which you apply cream and jam on a scone or who first came up with the pasty (although I fear Devon is clutching at straws in that battle – the clue’s in the name after all!).

Whilst I live in, and love everything about, Devon, I am also a huge fan of the Corns and everything Cornish!  I love the people, the pubs, the cider, the rivers, the beaches, the cliffs, the coves, the villages, the ruggedness, the wildness, the moors and, of course, Poldark (well, Aiden to be precise!).

I was recently talking to my colleagues from the Cornish Celebrants, who said that the programme Poldark has had a massive impact on their business.  More and more couples are wanting to be married in places with dramatic backdrops, be it a rugged moorland landscape or a clifftop overlooking a mesmerising seascape. The Poldark effect also sees many couples drawing on the Celtic influences (handfasting in particular) of the period and because no license is required for a celebrant ceremony, it is entirely possible to have your wedding in all these magical places incorporating as much of the inspiration behind the TV drama as you wish.

However, when you are considering a wedding like this, Devon has those cliffs, coves and moors too and they’re every bit as good as those of our neighbours.  Devon has magical, mystical places. It has Jurassic coastlines and secluded woodlands and remote sheep covered hills.  So don’t just default to Cornwall…… consider Devon and all its gloriousness.  And while you’re at it, stick your cream on first and then add your jam!

I’ve put together a Poldark inspiration board over on our Pinterest page. There’s some glorious landscapes and loads of ideas for an 18th century, wild and rugged wedding.

 

Landscape image sources: Top left, Top middle, Top right, Bottom left, Bottom middle, Bottom right

Jess and Jess. Outdoor wedding at Streamcombe Farm. Celebrant wedding photographed by Vaughan-Stephens Photography

Two Beautiful Boho Brides, One Name and One Magical Venue

It was all about the Jess’ on the 7th July 2018.  It was only when I sat down and started writing the script that it occurred to me, when I began telling their story, that the shared name issue was potentially going to be quite challenging.  I don’t normally have to use second names when I’m sharing weddings on this blog, but for ‘their story’ and for clarification purposes we adopted two of their nicknames.  I wonder if I shall ever come across this situation again?

Their chosen venue was the magical Streamcombe Farm near Dulverton.  It’s completely off the beaten track with a wonderful Boho vibe and when the Jess’ fell upon it they knew it was exactly what they were after.

The ceremony took place under a beautiful canopy created by an enormous beech tree which provides a majestic natural cathedral.

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It was sweet watching Jess C awaiting the arrival of her bride with her father, Robert.  There was a palpable hue of anticipation.  And Jess B didn’t disappoint.  She looked equally stunning and was accompanied by her sister as Maid of Honour and nieces as bridesmaids.

The plan had been for Coco their dog to be their ringbearer but sadly due to the sweltering heat it was decided that poor Coco might have melted.

Jess and Jess are a couple who are renown amongst their friends and family for their generous hospitality and warmth.  With most of their guests camping at Streamcombe for the weekend there was a real sense of celebration and good cheer which had started the night before the ceremony and I am sure continued long afterwards.  Another very happy day.

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These incredible photographs are courtesy of Vaughan-Stephens Photography.

The wedding of Andy & Sarah. Emma Oakes Photography. Cornwall wedding, dartmoor wedding, outdoor wedding, celebrant wedding

The Wild Weather Breaks for a Beautiful Wedding on the Edge of Dartmoor

The wedding of Andy & Sarah. Emma Oakes Photography. Cornwall wedding, dartmoor wedding, outdoor wedding, celebrant weddingCast your mind back to June this year– we’d had a spell of the most beautiful weather and we were all feeling a little complacent and were beginning to assume that all would be well for a BBQ or indeed ….. a wedding.  I could hardly bear it as I left home to present Andy and Sarah’s ceremony at Wonward Barton.  It was pouring and I mean properly pouring with rain.

Wonward Barton is a cosy, rustic wedding venue with fantastic views towards Cornwall.  In prime position taking full advantage of the said view, was a beautiful ceremonial arch made especially for the day by Andy’s uncle. Indeed he wasn’t the only family member who had been hard at work preparing for the day.  This really was a family affair.  Everyone had helped to make this special day the very best for this incredibly kind, fun and busy couple.  The beautiful marquee was festooned with literally miles of bunting made by Andy’s Mum.   The garden was full of outside games.  How dare the weather turn on my nurse and paramedic?

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Their’s was a lovely story to tell and their love and friendship are worthy of great celebration.  Having met with them, got to know them and laughed with them, we collaborated and created a script that reflected their relationship and love.  This ceremony was truly personal.  Everyone who attended knew them well, loved them a lot and recognised them in the story we told.

The rain was never going to dim the light at this wedding.  Simply because it was shining bright in Andy and Sarah’s eyes and I was lucky enough to be a part of it.

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